Consider you’ve already roasted the eggplant with any of the methods I mentioned above, and let it cool for 10 minutes.
Holding on to the stem with one hand, gently peel back the peel with your other hand.
Cut the eggplant in half and quarters, lengthwise, and place it either on a wooden board (as my mother does), leaned at a 45 degree angle over a bowl to release the juices. Alternatively, I place the eggplant over a colander which is over a bowl, and let the juices flow out this way.
Let the eggplant drain for about an hour or so.
Place the eggplant in a food processor (or simply chop with a knife, as my mother does).
Note: if you decide to roast more than one eggplant (I often do 3-5!), these freeze really well. Feel free to freeze them after the draining stage, and then make them throughout the winter as a lovely salad over buckwheat bread. Yum!